"It is not easy having a family member or friend with depression. A great number of people battling depression, myself included, can be laughing and joking one day, then nobody will hear from me for a month or two. I may consistently cancel plans and might not always show up, but it isn't because I don't care. I understand how that behavior can seem selfish to someone on the receiving end of it. Let me tell you this, people with depression are far from selfish. Being selfish requires energy, and the majority of severely depressed individuals have no energy.
One of the worst things you can do to someone that has depression is become upset with them for their actions, or lack there of. You can't be mad at someone who has autism. You can't be mad at someone that has cancer, they can't help it. Just as someone that has depression can't help their chemical imbalance. It does not help matters if someone you love and care about, becomes so angry and frustrated with your behavior they just want to shake you and scream, "What is the matter with you, why can't you just get out of bed and get on with your day like the rest of us?" That is called belittling.
Some old school folks may think, "A good talking to," and some, "Tough love," will snap us right out of it. Trust me, this is definitely not the right approach to take. I can almost guarantee you the vast majority of people suffering with clinical depression, again myself included, have already been asking themselves, "Why can't I just get out of bed and get on with my day like the rest of you?" Please do not assume we have never heard that line. We invented that line."
I never thought that I was invincible to STD s or pregnancy or anything else parents warn their kids about. I just didn’t think about it. I was in a monogamous relationship and thought that I asked the right questions. We even talked about marriage Scary. During that time I was in college and donated blood on a regular basis in efforts to help others when I could. As you may know, each donation is tested. Well, on July 6th I had a meeting with a Red Cross representative and was told that I had HIV. “What went through your mind when you heard that "Rose" Good question reader! To be honest, I thought my life was over, that I would ever find love, get married, have children or anything normal. Lucky for me I have an amazing support system. My family supported me then as well. who helped me in search of cure through the media.there we saw a good testimony of sister 'Kate' about the good work of Dr Akhigbe natural herbal medicine cure.then I copied his email address and contacted him. A good herbalist doctor with a good heart, he is kind, loving and caring. He replied back to my message and told me what to do. It after a week the doctor sent me my herbal medicine and instructed me how to take it.Yes it worked very well, after drinking it I went to the hospital for another test and everything turned negative. What a wonderful testimony I can never forget in my life. Dr Akhigbe is a man who gave me a life to live happily forever so all I want you all to believe and know that cure of HIV is real and herbs is a powerful medicine and it works and heals. Dr Akhigbe also used his herbal medicine to cure diseases like: HERPES, DIABETES, SCABIES, HEPATITIS A/B, STROKE, CANCER, ALS, TUBERCULOSIS, ASTHMA, PENIS ENLARGEMENT, MALARIA, LUPUS, DEPRESSION, HIV/AIDS, EPILEPSY, BACTERIAL, DIARRHEA, HEART DISEASES, HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, PARKINSON'S, ALZHEIMER, HUMAN PAPILLOMAVIRUS, BACTERIAL VAGINOSIS, SCHIZOPHRENIA, JOINT PAIN, STOMACH PAIN, CHROME DISEASES, CHLAMYDIA, THYROID, MAR BURG DISEASES, MENINGITIS, ARTHRITIS, BODY WEAK, SMALLPOX, DENGUE, FEVER, CURBS, CHANCRE, ETC. You are there and you find yourself in any of these situations, kindly contact Dr Akhigbe now to help you get rid of it. Here is his email address:
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My appreciation is to share his testimony for the world to know the good work Dr Akhigbe has done for me and he will do the same for you.